How to Show Up on Social Media During the Coronavirus Crisis

Our new reality with the Covid-19 crisis is intense. It means staying home, working remotely, homeschooling children, and even processing grief. Showing up on social media has likely – and appropriately – taken a backseat to urgent concerns.

It sure has for me, even though I’m a social media consultant and an executive coach. In my work, I keep a social media content calendar for LinkedIn, Twitter and Instagram. Yet as the crisis has unfolded, I’ve been reluctant to jump into the ever-increasing chorus of voices. My creativity feels like a casualty of the day-to-day struggle to survive.

But here’s what I’ve observed. Even though my postings dropped off, more people were looking at my LinkedIn profile. Fewer posts usually result in fewer profile views, so the uptick was surprising.

Curious, I looked at their profiles and invited some to connect. Many replies were near immediate, even on weekends. More people have time on their hands right now, and they’re craving meaningful connection.

Your virtual presence is a big opportunity. It’s fully under your control, when so much feels completely beyond our control. People are looking online to find current information, seek inspiration, and create connection. You likely have valuable insights that can help others.

By sharing your thoughts, you position yourself as a leader and a go-to person, regardless of your official title. This is more important than ever, whether you’re unexpectedly in the job market or leading a team through chaos while working remotely.

Before coronavirus (or “B.C.”), my clients had two main concerns. The first is teasing out what’s interesting and unique about their experiences. Often they’re so close to what they’re doing that they overlook how it could help others. The second is a concern about being overly self-promotional. For women in particular, this fear is validated by research. During a crisis, overcoming these issues is critical.

Here are five strategies for showing up effectively on social media right now. By modifying your approach, you can position yourself as an expert in your field, a resourceful problem solver, and a leader in turbulent times.

Shift your tone to a realistic optimism based on facts and experience

Content that doesn’t acknowledge the current crisis comes across as tone deaf. As a result, it is often tuned out. Yet all Covid-19 content all the time can be overwhelming.

There’s an art to acknowledging what’s going on and pivoting to the message you want to share. And adopting a relentless spirit of optimism grounded in brutal realism is especially compelling now. You can acknowledge the challenges as you strive to lift people up with bright spots, potential solutions, and interesting ideas.

A role model for realistic optimism is Michael White, the former CEO of DIRECTV where I was VP of corporate communications. His recent LinkedIn content has included science-based ways to keep your family safe during the pandemic, a good explanation of flattening the curve of the virus, and a shout-out for the author of a new book on women’s business leadership in Latin America. (Congratulations, Marty Seldman!)

Consider what people in your network need

Start by evaluating who is in your network and what they would find useful. How many are clients? They may need up-to-date industry information that’s easy to digest. They may be looking for advice on weathering the storm and building a stronger business for the other side of it.

What percentage are colleagues and team members? They may be looking for reassuring leadership, with a genuine level of candor and concrete steps to move forward. They may also seek connection and a comforting experience of being in a difficult situation together – rather than feeling isolated and alone.

Who are your aspirational contacts? Perhaps there are industry leaders, authors, or speakers you’ve long admired. They may be more open to dialogue right now, especially if you offer a perspective of interest to their work. Dorie Clark, a marketing strategist and keynote speaker, describes how a cold contact intrigued her with a brief description of an eclectic background and interests.

Adopt a mindset of helping others

Now more than ever, approaching social media by asking how you can help others is a must. What information and insights do you have that would be valuable? What experiences are you having that others could benefit from? What perspectives would be helpful?

Your posts could be a practical piece of advice, an inspirational story, or a bit of much-needed humor that will help people better work and live through the crisis.

The new phenomenon of “Zoombombing,” when uninvited people disrupt online meetings, attracted the attention of the FBI. Reza Zaheri, founder of a cybersecurity firm, posted on LinkedIn a list of actions to prevent this. Reza helped his network by making it easy to understand the issue and take quick steps to solve the problem. 

Identify what you can offer that is unique

Give some thought to what only you could share. What are you learning? Have you picked up some strategies for being more effective in a crisis? Do you have a leadership mantra?

It’s essential to be a social media contrarian now. Don’t add to the over-saturated topics like working remotely (unless you have a unique twist on it). Find something fresh and different that only you could share.

Dallas Mavericks CEO Cynt Marshall recently posted her “new .com” guiding principles. She shared her message to employees and offered it up on social media for colleagues and friends. In it, she articulates her new focus – compassion, communication, community, compromise, and compliance. This is uniquely Cynt.

Engage meaningfully by commenting on others’ content

The day-to-day dealing with the new reality can be exhausting. It can sap our creativity and our ability to generate engaging and valuable content. When you feel like you’re barely functioning, give yourself a break and let up on creating new content.

Instead, engage with people by commenting on their content. Consider how you can deepen and further the conversation with a comment or a question. If there’s someone in your network who would benefit from knowing about a post, tag them in your comment.

If you’ve built a large network or following on a social media platform, your comments may be especially valuable in drawing more attention to someone’s post. That’s another way of generously helping others during a crisis. Your comment may help the content reach a larger audience and make a bigger impact.

Dedicating a brief time every few days to post comments could become a regular habit that helps you and others. Rituals have a restorative power, according to author Scott Berinato. Especially now.

In conclusion, by being appropriately active on social media during trying times, you can accomplish multiple objectives. You can genuinely help others by providing useful information. You can provide calm and caring leadership. Most importantly, you can make a difference in people’s lives, now and in our new normal.

 

 

How to Network with People while Staying at Home

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Life can change in an instant.

A month ago, who knew we’d be staying at home to help flatten the curve of coronavirus?

Yet as humans we’re wired for connection. Without it, we wither away. So how can we keep in touch in a responsible way when we need to practice social distancing?

It’s a question I’ve been wrestling with during the last few weeks. Why? I believe in sharing content on social media only when there’s something interesting, informative, and/or inspirational to say. It’s about being a bit of a social media contrarian, and doing something different from others. That’s why I’ve been quieter than usual on social media.

I’ve been observing, thinking, and questioning. What does coronavirus and its many implications mean for us? Where are we headed? How will our world change? What are ways we can get ahead of it? How can we help ourselves and others during turbulent times?

In the midst of taking it all in, I noticed something counter-intuitive on LinkedIn. Even though I’m posting less content, my profile views started to increase.

In “normal times,” the less often I posted, the fewer profile views I got. However, I started seeing the opposite. What was turning this social media “truth” on its head in the last few weeks?

To help find out, I decided to connect with some of the people who viewed my profile. As is my practice and recommendation, I sent personalized invitations. I thanked people for viewing my profile, commented on something I could find in common, and asked to connect with them.

The speed of people’s replies surprised me, especially on a Sunday evening. The more heartfelt and open nature of people’s replies were also surprising and touching.

This underscored what in retrospect should have been obvious — people are hungering. And not only that. Depending on their industry, they often have more time to establish professional relationships.

Technology in various forms, including social media, gives us multiple opportunities for connection. Here are a few ideas …

Reach out to one or two people each day

An email or a text to touch base with someone can be a real day brightener — for the recipient and for you. Ideally, that message is sent without any agenda other than to say hello and check on how they’re doing.

Of course, share a bit about what’s new with you and how you’re adjusting to our stay-at-home world. Include a photo or a short video if that makes sense.

You could also take it to another level and connect via Zoom, Skype, or other video-based medium. Every few weeks I’m doing this with a variety of colleagues and friends to share ideas and inspiration. In the personal realm, my sister and I are doing Zoom calls with our parents on Sunday mornings.

Connect with new people on LinkedIn

Consider everyone you come across on LinkedIn as someone you can potentially build a relationship with. People who viewed your profile are an option. Also look at the voices showing up in your LinkedIn feed.

If they’re second- or third-level connects who you find interesting, send them a personalized connection request. Tell them why your content attracted your attention as well as a bit about you. Keep it friendly and lighthearted.

This is not the time to ask for anything other than a connection. You can build a relationship over time from there. To make sure compelling people show up in your feed, follow hashtags of interest on LinkedIn by typing terms of interest into the search bar.

Identify aspirational relationships you’d like to build

In many industries, people have more time on their hands right now. That may make them more open to meeting new people. Who are the thought leaders in your industry? Who are the leaders in your company? Who are authors and influencers you admire?

Start making a list of who you’d like to build a relationship with over time. Okay, it may not ever be the moment to try to build a relationship with Oprah. But there are plenty of other incredible people who are more accessible on social media than ever.

Put your requests out there, keeping it light and friendly and not asking for anything. Once you do connect, make a point to follow the person’s content and comment on it as appropriate.

And if people don’t respond to your requests, don’t take it personally. It’s probably not you. Some people don’t check LinkedIn frequently and may not have even seen your request.

These are just a few ways you can network while working from home in your favorite athleisure. What are some of the ways you are building strong connections from home?

 

What’s Getting in the Way of Your Dreams?

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You have career dreams. Every day you work hard to make them come true. Yet maybe you’re not where you want to be yet. Maybe you feel stuck where you are. Perhaps you’re not enjoying the journey.

So what’s getting in your way? Where are you getting stuck ? How is that preventing you from making the impact you want?

The surface answer may be the outcome of relentlessly comparing ourselves to others. In everyone’s carefully curated social media feeds, we often forget we’re comparing our real lives, full of messiness and challenge, to everyone else’s near-perfect highlights reel. No wonder we can feel we fall short.

It’s easy to lose sight of the fact that achieving a big dream takes time. Dreams don’t happen overnight or in a month or even a year, as many success stories on social media would have you believe.

Everyone has a dream

A wonderful antidote is the opening words from Barbra Streisand and Jamie Foxx’s version of the song Climb Ev’ry Mountain. Thanks to Leslie Lupinsky, I discovered this inspirational song. Leslie along with Jeff Jacobson led of one of my life-changing coaching courses at the Co-Active Training Institute.

The song begins with dialogue:

Everyone has a dream, don’t you think?

Yes, but the question is how do you make it happen?

Well, first of all, if you can imagine it, then you can achieve it

But it might take a lot of time, and it might take a lot of hard work …

It’s the hard work part that so often gets glossed over. If it doesn’t appear that others have had to work hard for their success, we can start to wonder what’s wrong with us. What is making our path so difficult? Why is it taking so long to achieve our career dreams? How can there be so much rejection along the way?

Finding inspiration in others

Here’s where the long and winding paths of others inspire me.

One is Marie Forleo. She wanted to coach people and help them discover, as the title of her book says, that Everything is Figureoutable. It took her seven years (!) for her coaching business to become sustainable. In between she worked a variety of jobs as she relentlessly pursued her dream. Oprah now calls her “a thought leader of the next generation.”

Another is Susan Cain. She wrote a bestselling book called Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking. Based on that, she gave a top 25 TED talk on the power of introverts. How long did it take her to write her book that sparked a “quiet revolution”? Seven years!

Above all, they both persisted through many twists and turns in pursuit of their deeply held dreams. A long-held dream was to make other people’s lives better as a result. There are lessons for us in their stories.

As a result, here’s what I take away from their examples, my corporate years as a communications and marketing leader, and my entrepreneur experience (so far!).

Kick fear to the curb

First of all, why do we have fear in our lives? It protects us from extreme risks that could ultimately derail us. Fear comes to us through our inner critic. It’s the voice that whispers in our ears. You’re not good enough. You don’t have what it takes. You can never do it. If we listen long enough, we begin to believe it. Fear becomes a dream killer. What to think and do instead? Thank our fear for alerting us to dangers, take mitigating actions, and set fear aside.

Be a victor, not a victim

Also, when we believe the rantings of our inner critic, we can view life in victim mode. We start to believe we’re not active agents in our own lives. A negative running commentary can set in. I can’t do that. It will be a waste of my time to even try. The deck is stacked against me. A victim mentality can lead to paralysis, and and endless feeling of being stuck. What to think and do instead? Recall times you took control and overcome challenges. You’re a victor, so remind yourself you can do it again.

Take relentless action

Finally, thinking ourselves out of problems doesn’t work. We have to take action. Sometimes a challenge can feel so daunting that it’s hard to know where to start. Begin with the simplest step. Maybe it’s creating your career dream in the first place, in beautiful detail. Perhaps it’s having a development conversation with your supervisor, to start creating a path toward the future you envision and the contribution you want to make. Or it could be taking better care of yourself mentally, physically and spiritually so you have more energy and enthusiasm to pursue your dreams.

What does this all mean?

With all of this action, what are the implications for you how show up on social media? As a start, you can consider sharing your struggles as well as your successes. How are you overcoming obstacles? What are you doing to handle rejection? How are you persevering toward your dream?

Since the beginning of this year I’ve had plenty of personal experience with rejection. Two articles I wrote were rejected for publication by HBR.org, the online part of Harvard Business Review. People who indicated interest in working with me stopped responding to messages. Some of my speaking proposals resulted in rejections. And there’s more, but I won’t bore you.

All that said, there were also successes and new doors that opened. Consequently, those are the ones I choose to focus on.They are the ones I rejoice in and celebrate.

Above all, the rock-solid belief in our own ability and our own agency is what keeps us going. Ultimately it’s what makes the day-to-day journey so much fun. And that’s what life is all about.