Don’t Apply for Stuff

Don’t apply for stuff. 🚫

Students and colleagues give me a puzzled look when I share that advice.

How are you supposed to get jobs and grow careers without applying?

Applying for stuff:

🔴 Rarely leads to anything good
🔴 Often involves being ghosted or rejected
🔴 Gives a false sense of taking action that will lead to desired outcomes

What works instead?

✅ Getting to know people and being of service
✅ Building a network of colleagues who encourage and help each other
✅ Creating a reputation – a personal brand – for delivering value

A few examples …

In a career change, I applied for multiple jobs in corporate communications in my organization. Initially, I got rejections. Then I met people on the team through professional associations. They helped me get interviews. But I was often the number-two candidate, without an offer. Finally, I interviewed for a job and hit it off with the hiring manager. The role wasn’t right, but we kept in touch. Two months later, he reached out. A senior writer had resigned. Was I interested in the job? Um, yes! More interviews ensued. They wanted to make me an offer, but I hadn’t applied for the job. So I quickly did.

In leaping from the corporate to entrepreneurial world, I wanted to teach as a focus area. My start was serendipitous. A colleague from a volunteer board was a department director at a local college. He asked if I was interested in designing and teaching a new class in digital marketing. Um, yes! It was a blast. Later, I wanted to move to a larger university. I reached out to people in my network to chat about opportunities. While the conversations were friendly, they didn’t lead anywhere. One referral seemed hostile and uninterested in connecting, so I decided not to push it. A few months later, I got an email introduction. It was someone at the university who knew me from my alumni volunteer work and corporate social media work. A department head asked her for adjunct professor recommendations in digital and social media. My contact recommended me. After several conversations and guest speaking, I was invited to start teaching. Oh, and I had to apply after that.

More recently, I applied for an intriguing part-time contract role. It was complimentary to my current portfolio of clients and focus on coaching, consulting, speaking, and teaching. I thought I met or exceeded the key criteria. I excitedly applied online. Two days later, the rejection email arrived. I reflected on what went wrong. Because I thought my experience was a strong match with the requirements, I didn’t reach out to people for advice. This is a mistake I will not repeat.

So, stop applying for stuff. Instead, nurture your network. Help people. Let them know how they can help you. Do great work and tell people about it in the spirit of serving others.

How have you landed new opportunities?

 

What Do Freedom and Equality Mean to You?

“Who ever walked behind anyone to freedom? If we can’t go hand in hand, I don’t want to go.” 🇺🇸 So said Hazel Scott. A jazz pianist and singer, Scott was the first Black woman to host her own TV show. Throughout her life from 1920 to 1981, she was a force for racial equality.

As the United States celebrates Independence Day, what do freedom and equality mean to you?

And what does it mean to seek freedom, walking hand in hand?

To me it means …

🇺🇸 We are all interdependent. The strength and sustainability of our grand but sometimes fraying experiment in representative democracy rests with linking arms and creating freedom and equality together.

🇺🇸 The only thing we control is our own thoughts and actions. We can’t control court decisions (except via future elections) or the news cycle. Yet we ARE free to take individual and collective actions for an equitable world.

🇺🇸 A powerful lesson about the founding Americans is one of taking a huge risk, when the outcome is uncertain. The signers of the Declaration of Independence risked death in doing so. Despite that, they proceeded.

And while the founding Americans weren’t perfect, and there were paradoxes in the Declaration, there is a basic framework and foundation that we can strive to expand and grow.

As the U.S. marks its 247th birthday, my hope for those who are celebrating is a day of fun, family, friends, food, fireworks … and a little reflection. Let’s remember this amazing gift we have been given. How can we be good stewards for greater freedom and equality?

 

What Would Make Today Fulfilling for You?

View of RAT Beach in Los Angeles County

What would make today fulfilling for you? ✨

It’s an unusual day. A Monday before a national holiday. Today isn’t a holiday, or a weekend, or even a regular work day.

Perhaps it’s a vacation day for you. Perhaps it’s a work day. Or maybe it’s something in between.

The important thing is to be intentional about how you choose to spend it.

When you reflect on today, at the end of it, what will make it a great one?

For me, it’s a blend of personal time, family business time, and family time.

➡ A strength training workout at the beach (that’s the picture), along with some cardio and a good podcast

➡ A day of mid-year financial assessment and planning with my husband Kevin Leach for our family-owned restaurant Pacific Standard Prime. Being closed on Mondays makes this easier.

➡ A family dinner with my husband and daughter. Monday is our family night tradition.

➡ An evening trip to the airport to pick up our son and his friends after a nearly 3-week trip to Japan. I can’t wait to hear about their experiences!

And I’m so proud of our son for earning the trip money as a brunch chef at our restaurant. He came home from college every weekend to work.

One of the often-unexpected benefits of planning a trip is the anticipation.

I just experienced the same excitement in planning my day.

Seeing it take shape in this post makes me eager to jump into it.

It re-framed my perspective.

Now I see the things I “get” to do, and not “have” to to do.

How will you make YOUR day fulfilling and exciting?

 

How to Have a Chill Summer Weekend

What are your favorite ways of having a chill summer weekend? 😎 One where you feel relaxed, refreshed, and reenergized?

Not necessarily so you can be ready for the work week ahead, but to fully enjoy and savor your life in the moment.

A few years ago I visited Vancouver to speak at the IABC world conference for communicators.

While I was there, I took a solitary stroll through the stunning Stanley Park (pictured).

Since then I’ve been captivated by the research that shows spending time in green spaces (among trees) and blue spaces (near water) is invaluable to our health and well being.

To that end, here are a few weekend ideas. Some can be combined and done together …

💕 Spend time with cherished family and friends

🌲 Get out in nature, for some forest bathing

💪 Move your body with a walk or a workout

📚 Exercise your mind with a book, a podcast, or a curious conversation

🎨 Spend time on a hobby you enjoy and lose track of time

🎢 Do something fun for the sheer joy of it

🍦 Help others through volunteering

🖊️ Reflect on what’s most important to you and what’s next

😎 Do nothing at all, and just BE!

What makes a great weekend for you?

 

How Will You Make the Most of the Second Half of the Year?

It’s the middle of the year and a long holiday weekend. 🇺🇸 What better time to reflect on where you are and where you want to go?

Here are 7 reflection questions to supercharge the rest of your year …

👉 What are you proud of so far this year?

👉 How are you performing on the annual goals you set?

👉 What’s working well?

👉 What would you like to do better?

👉 What are you excited about?

👉 What’s one action that would increase your leadership impact?

👉 How can you make the most of second half of the year?

Sometimes it’s all too easy to focus on what’s NOT working well. That’s how our brains work. We go right to the negative. (And this week’s news cycle certainly lends itself to that.)

Yet when you take the time to reflect on what you’re proud of, it’s easier to see how much progress you HAVE made.

And what you’re EXCITED about is what gives you energy.

That energy is so necessary to navigate daily challenges, bounce back from rejection, and keep going toward your biggest and most exciting goals.

How will you make the most of the second half of the year?